

Parent Consultation vs. Therapy
Understanding the Difference—and Which Is Right for Your Family
When you’re seeking support for your child’s development or behavior, it can be hard to know what kind of help you need. Many parents wonder whether they should start therapy for their child or begin with parent consultation.
At Access Autism Testing & Consultation (AATC), we help families across Texas, Florida, and Louisiana understand the difference so they can make confident, informed choices that meet their child’s needs—and their family’s goals.
What Is Parent Consultation?
Parent consultation focuses on coaching, education, and collaboration between a psychologist or behavior specialist and the parent(s).
Instead of direct therapy with your child, the focus is on helping you learn strategies to support your child’s development at home.
Parent consultation often includes:
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Understanding your child’s strengths and needs
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Learning how to support communication and social skills
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Creating routines and visuals that build independence
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Reducing challenging behaviors through proactive strategies
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Coordinating care and advocating for school supports
Think of it as guided coaching—you’re equipped with tools and insights to help your child thrive in everyday settings.
What Is Therapy?
Therapy involves direct services for your child, where a licensed professional works with them individually or in small groups to build specific skills.
Examples include:
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Speech Therapy: Building communication and language
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Occupational Therapy: Supporting sensory processing, motor skills, and daily living
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Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA): Teaching adaptive behaviors and social skills
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Play or Counseling Therapy: Supporting emotional regulation and coping
Therapy is hands-on and child-focused—sessions target skill development through structured activities.
Parent Consultation vs. Therapy: Key Differences
Parent consultation involves direct support to the parent which focuses on education and coaching. At AATC, it involves either virtual or in-person meetings between the professional and parents with the goal of empowering parents to create consistent support. It is best for parents seeking guidance, structure and early support. It also requires hands on and active participation from parents. Therapy is done directly with the child and is focused on skill building and intervention. Sessions for therapy are usually in person. The goal of therapy is to improve specific skills and is best for children needing targeted skill development. The parent role is supportive and collaborative. Both approaches can complement each other—many families start with parent consultation and add therapy as needed.
When Parent Consultation Is the Best Fit
Parent consultation may be ideal if:
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Your child is very young (toddler or preschool age)
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You’re waiting for therapy services to begin
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You want to learn ABA-based strategies for daily routines
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Your child is anxious or resistant to traditional therapy settings
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You’re seeking clarity after an autism diagnosis
Through coaching, you’ll learn how to embed developmental strategies into daily life—mealtimes, play, transitions, and more.
How Access Autism Testing & Consultation (AATC) Can Help
After your child’s autism evaluation, our psychologists provide individualized guidance on next steps.
We’ll help you determine:
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Whether parent consultation or therapy—or both—is best
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Which skills to prioritize
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How to find qualified providers in your area
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How to integrate home strategies into everyday routines
We focus on strengths, relationships, and practical steps, so families feel confident moving forward.
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